Daily living skill

Eating a meal

Mealtime step by step, with the manners the Prophet ﷺ taught: Bismillah, the right hand, the food that is near, and Alhamdulillah at the end.

The steps (9 steps)

 

  1. Step 1: I wash my hands.

    Washing my hands, step by step

  2. Step 2: I sit down at the table.

  3. Step 3: I say Bismillah.

    Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 5376; Sahih Muslim 2022

    Before eating

  4. Step 4: I eat with my right hand.

    Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 5376; Sahih Muslim 2022

  5. Step 5: I eat the food that is near me.

    Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 5376; Sahih Muslim 2022

  6. Step 6: I take small bites and chew well.

  7. Step 7: When I finish, I say Alhamdulillah.

    Source: Sahih Muslim 2734

    After eating

  8. Step 8: I take my plate to the kitchen.

  9. Step 9: I wash my hands and wipe my mouth.

For grown-ups

Keep mealtimes calm: one new manner at a time is plenty. A plate with sections helps children who do not like foods touching.

The Prophet ﷺ said to a boy who was eating with him: "Boy, say Bismillah, eat with your right hand, and eat from what is near you."Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 5376; Sahih Muslim 2022

"Allah is pleased with a servant who eats a meal and praises Him for it, or drinks and praises Him for it."Source: Sahih Muslim 2734

Sources

  • Sahih al-Bukhari 5376
  • Sahih Muslim 2022
  • Sahih Muslim 2734

Faith lines come only from the Quran and from hadith graded sahih or hasan. Scholars differ on some details, so ask a scholar you trust.

Pictograms: Sergio Palao, ARASAAC (arasaac.org), Government of Aragón, under the Creative Commons BY-NC-SA licence.